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Too Close Too Soon Avoiding The Heartache Of Premature Intimacy
Too Close Too Soon Avoiding The Heartache Of Premature Intimacy
Authors: Jim A. Talley, Bobbie Reed
Publisher: Thomas Nelson
Category: Book

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Avg. Customer Rating: 4.0 out of 5 stars 8 reviews
Sales Rank: 308555

Media: Paperback
Edition: Rev
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 190
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.4
Dimensions (in): 7.8 x 5.1 x 0.6

ISBN: 0840730454
Dewey Decimal Number: 306.708652
EAN: 9780840730459
ASIN: 0840730454

Publication Date: September 21, 1989
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Jim Talley and Bobbie Reed outline simple yet effective methods of building quality relationships while curtailing premature intimacy in this plain-spoken and experience-tested manual. A study guide at the end of the book features discussion questions and creative assignments for each chapter.

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5 out of 5 stars Too Close Too Soon: Avoiding the Heartache of Premature Intimacy   October 10, 2005
 1 out of 2 found this review helpful

This is an awesome tool for anyone considering a relationship with a member of the opposite sex! It allows the reader to think about "all" aspects of a relationship before jumping in.


5 out of 5 stars Excellent Guide   February 24, 2005
 9 out of 9 found this review helpful

I really cannot recommend this book enough, it is a great guide for dating relationships. It seems that too often when you examine your romantic relationships, you meet a person and start dating. However, there isn't a firm foundation of friendship to build that relationship on.

This book actually gives you practical advice for building that friendship. I strongly recommend making three copies of the "Agreement for Genuine Friendship". One copy for the girl, one copy for the guy, and the pastor/spiritual advisor may with to keep one on file (if not, you can frame it or something). The Talley-Graph of how the two of you spend time together (alone, group, phone/internet) is another thing that I would suggest you make a copy of and use.

The authors also take into account the ocassional mess up and how you can deal with that (limiting time alone together). Also, you have to be able to have an open dialog. If you can't talk about it, just limiting the time isn't going to help.

Major biblical principles are clearly marked in the text, with the Scripture and where you can find it in the Bible. You don't have to flip someplace to see where the author is citing, nor do you have to flip though your Bible to see what verse the author is talking about, it's all right there.

I definitely think that this book is well worth the money you spend on it!



5 out of 5 stars Excellent marriage guide   September 18, 2002
 14 out of 14 found this review helpful

This book is fantastic. My husband and I had both come out of a number of "too close" relationships before we met and we needed some guidance when we started dating. We each had our own copy of the book and followed it to the letter. It was extremely difficult, but it was the best thing we could have done for our relationship. It was because we followed the book to the letter that we are married and still together 8 years later. The book outlines a program that requires a lot of self-discipline which leads to a bonding between the couple. By following the guidelines in the book we were able to avoid too much physical contact and were able to really get to know one another mentally and emotionally.

I highly recommend this to couples who are just beginning to date and want some help building a strong foundation on which to build their relationship.


3 out of 5 stars Recommended for ones with relationship problems   August 5, 2001
 7 out of 7 found this review helpful

"Too Close Too Soon" teaches one some of the most common failures in a relationship. As the title implies, many go too fast at the beginning of a relationship.

My summary: In ANY CLOSE relationship, one becomes vulnerable. Yet, trust *must* become before vulnerability, It takes time to build up trust. Therefore, one must be slow and patient at the beginning.

I did NOT agree with EVERYTHING that Dr. Talley tried into his reader's minds . However, I have benefited greatly from his book. I recommend it to anyone who has trouble keeping a date. You may see yourself in some of his chapters.


4 out of 5 stars Very Good Book   July 1, 2001
 8 out of 8 found this review helpful

I read this book when it came out in 1990 and I often refer back to it. It is one of my favorites. While the authors try to provide a time line for time spent together prior to marriage or while dating, many will find it impossible to follow. But the key isn't to follow the time line, but use the book as a guideline. That's the key. They hit the nail on the head when they carefully and cautiously warn men and women that too much time will get you into much trouble. The other helpful piece of wisdom in the book is the relationship growth patterns and differences between men and women. I appreciate these authors and thier fine contribution to my Christian library.

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